I'm kinda seeing someone at the moment and I really like him, I don't want to date other people it just doesn't feel right to me and I feel like it would make things more complicated.. I think he might be keeping his options open though and it makes me feel like crap, I know he is still single.. but it would end up crushing me even more if he chose someone else. I've noticed he's added girls who are a lot younger than me and have a better job etc. I feel so down about myself and think what's the point of dating when a guy can just get a better looking, younger woman with better qualities and isn't like me... Do you usually keep your options open?
Most Helpful Guy
Absolutely not. Even from the first date, I am loyal to her until I know we aren't going to work out. If I am dating her I see some things in here that I really like and want to be around for a while.
If it's been a few months and you guys see each other a lot or regularly then let him know that you aren't seeing anyone and see what he says. If you don't like his answer then you can split.1
Most Helpful Girl
I'd never do that. The sole reason I date a guy is to get to know him more in the hope it'll develop into a relationship. I'd focus all my attention on ONLY him , to get to know him on a deeper level.
Plus, I'd want him to build trust in me. I'd never earn his trust If I was dating multiple guys at the same time
If a guy I was dating was keeping his options open by seeing other girls then I'd make his choice for him... by ending it0