What are some legitimate reasons NOT to ask someone out?

I know this sounds weird, but I don't have much confidence in myself. I'll come up with reasons why I shouldn't ask girls out, but at the same time I have this feeling that they're not very good reasons. Reasons like my looks vs hers, my popularity vs hers etc. I just wanted to get the perspectives of some people who think differently to me.


Most Helpful Girl

  • If there is no charming attraction
    No compatibility at all
    if she is not able to hold a communication
    if she is too materialistic
    If you just don't like the way she talks and acts
    if you don't like most of her ideas


Most Helpful Guy

  • No physical attraction
    Lack of compatibility
    She's high maintenance and you have no money
    Her family would look down on you or your family would look down on her


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What Girls Said 1

  • The only thing that would stand in my way is he wasn't showing signs of interest or seemed indiffertnt towards me. Other than that I'd risk pusrsuing him


What Guys Said 1

  • if you don´t like her physically or personally, don´t ask her out. but if you think she´s kind of cute, go for it. i mean what have you got to lose other than your virginity? (just assoming you are one xD no offense).


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