I'm actually a senior and this is my last term. Wasn't planning on crushing on anyone... buuuuut I guess these things happen unexpectedly. He's in one of my classes. We go to a private college so our class has maybe 15 students. We meet 3 times a week for an hour and then we meet once a week extra on Wednesday evenings for film showings (it's a film course). He is super cute. He sits alone, as do I, but the seats are sparse and usually we sit on opposite ends of the room. Today I noticed he looked at me while I walked in and to my seat but it could have just been nothing. I am cute (!) but I am so shy and don't talk to people much.. I don't want to be too flirty or obvious but I really want to talk to the guy. I stalked his fb already and he is single AND his hometown is only a half hour from my own, and I may actually be moving there soon anyways. How do I go about this to not make things awkward if he isn't interested. I mean, I've never been rejected but there's always a possibility he will.
Most Helpful Guy
That's tough. I'm super shy too. If I were you, I'd just admire him from afar, ask yourself why you're so pathetic, and crawl in bed and feel sorry for yourself. If you want some actual advice, and understand I can in no way practice what I preach you should find an excuse to talk to him. Anything. Pretend you don't understand something about the professors instructions and ask him to clarify it for you. If he's anything like me he's sitting there fantasizing about someone actually noticing him and approaching him. I've never been noticed by someone from afar =/
Or if I have, they never told me, so it doesn't make a difference to me either way.1
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Most Helpful Girl
Approach him and start talking to him. There is no other way. If you really want to get to know him, talking is the only way.0