A guy I dated for over a month broke up with me - he said even though I am coolest girl he has ever met and really lovely, he was unsure since day 1 and doesn't feel it romantically... but I felt he was lying in a way because otherwise why would he date me that long if he didn't like me (he was always suggesting to meet up).
We didn't have sex nor did we kiss. And because I brought it up as to why he won't kiss me after dating for a month, he said he was unsure and didn't want to make the wrong move on me. Then a week after, he breaks it off saying he didn't want to keep me hanging, but now he said he wants to be friends and wants to keep talking to me? He did say he thought about moving forward with me a lot, but because he is unsure, he didn't want to keep me hanging.
Is this basically friendzoning me? Or is he keeping me on the sideline and hopefully without the pressures of exclusivity, he will like me eventually?
Most Helpful Guy
Well, he's either being forward and honest about his feelings, or you just took second place to another gal. Give it a little time and space, if he shows up with another lady in tow, you'll know what happened. If he doesn't, you should feel free to keep close, since he may actually be "in touch" wit his feelings, and whether or not he really likes you, he cares for you.0
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Most Helpful Girl
Agree. You are plan B.
Up to you if you want to be a back up. Or be #1.0