So me and my boyfriend have only been dating a week and things are already going down hill. Mainly the thing is that he doesn't pay as much attention to me as he did before we were dating. It seems like all he cares about now is his friends, and whenever I go over and try to talk to him or even text him he doesn't respond. And even though it's Valentine's Day I sent him this text
"Is anything going on or do you not like me anymore or something? Cause you've been really distant and I know your friends are important, mine are too. But you pay more attention to them than you do to me. I just feel like I'm putting more effort into this than you are. I wanted to ask you at school but I never got the chance."
He literally just ignored it and before I asked I told him that we really needed to talk, and he replied an hour later only saying "what" Also I thought this might be because he's always all over the place like he has ADHD or something.
My question is should I break up with him? Or should I give it time, what do I do?
Most Helpful Guy
I don't think you're even dating... it's only been a week?0
Most Helpful Girl
You're not dating. You've been together for a week. That's not a relationship. And considering your age... it's not surprising.
You're way way way WAY too serious about this "ship" you seem to think you have. It has been seven days. It's not a relationship. You're hardly dating.
So break up if you want. You'd be doing him a favor. You're taking this way too seriously for your age and the amount of time y'all been talking.
If you'd been together a year sure. Six months? Okay. Even one month maybe. But a week?
And after 7 days I don't care that it's V-Day. Don't expect anything. Y'all don't even know each other.1
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