This guy I've been seeing asked me at 6:15pm today "What are you doing? What are you doing for the rest of the night". I replied and said "nothing planned." He never followed up to suggest a meeting or anything. I noticed that he was online and even logged in to his dating profile.
I sent him a follow up text 3 hours later asking "Do you want to meet up tonight?"
Then he said, "I just got home. I think I'm going to bed hun." I didn't even bother to respond when he said that.
Why could he have done this? Could this mean that he changed his mind and decided to go out with some other girl tonight? Please help!
Most Helpful Guy
Unfortunately, and I say this as a Certified Relationship Coach, it's likely that he was weighing his options. He pulses your availability and likely pulsed the availability of others before going with someone.
And here's the deal, we teach people how to treat us by virtue of what we expect (respect, honesty, openness) and what we accept (being texted and then ghosted for a few hours). If you let this be, it will continue. I can assure you of that. And if he tells you that something came up (emergency, work situation, etc.) why didn't he communicate with you?
Your asking the right question here, but I think you already know the answer my friend.1
Most Helpful Girl
Have you met up with him before? Maybe his intention was to meet up with you but he got too shy to follow through it.0