He had told her that we are dating and we are going to have a baby together. but that doesn't stop her. she still keeps going at it. calling him baby, saying she misses him and that she loves him.
I told him that I feel insecure and hurt and sick inside in my heart. I started doubting him. which I have told him. he says to me many times that he loves me and that he and her has been done for a long time. that he is only there to be with his kids as long as he can. he has a daughter from when he was younger and the mother had refused to let him see her. and he doesn't want the same thing to happen with his two kids. I understand how he feels because it is true that mothers has the upper hand on getting custody in a nasty break up.
but it doesn't help that the bitch want him back I can picture her using their kids to get him back. I want to believe him that he won't leave us for her but I can't get it out of my head. has been days that I can't sleep because I'm so worried, doubtful, imagining him cheating on me with her. he's still the sweetest person, we have only fought ever because of his ex wanting him back and using the he doesn't care about his kids for being with me card.
what do I do? believe him? I know I'm not gonna get involved with that bitch craziness again that if we do break up again... it won't be because of her manipulating me into doing something crazy.
He wants his exgf to heal and hopefully eventually move on. hoping she'll accept that the two of them are over.
He also wants both of us to heal from all the drama. and wants things to be right.
he decided to keep our relationship a secret from the exgf. I agreed to it. but also hurt. He hopes that in the future the ex and I will get along. I told him that would be nice but I don't think it'll happen for quite a long time.