I just got out of a 6 year relationship prior to this and I have a daughter from that relationship as well. I'm not sure if I just like the attention that this guy is giving me because all he talks about is how awesome I am and how beautiful I am inside in out. It's nice don't get me wrong but he literally wears his heart on his sleeve. If I don't give him attention he gets upset and he tries to convince me to give the relationship a shot and I keep telling him to give me time we only knew each other for 6months and he's already falling in love!
I really want him around as a friend because we can literally talk about anything, but every time I start to like him he just turns me off. We work at a school and literally everyone there thinks we are dating which sucks because if I hurt his feeling I'll be looked at as a bad person or something.
Sorry if I wrote a lot , I hope I'm not shallow I feel as though I have to be attracted to a guy in order for the relationship to work. I'm just so confused , some people tell me to go for it and see how it goes then some say forget it. I need help! I just don't want to lose him as a friend.
Most Helpful Guy
It's possible he just likes the chase. I bet if you did give him a shot, he'd be just as turned off as you are. He's also very naive because there are plenty of single women out there that are completely free. So the question is, why is he chasing after one that just got out of a 6yr one and that has a kid.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
What is the problem?0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE