So I was seeing this guy for about a month and a half. I'm 23, he's 28. I really like this guy... he meets every requirement of my secret checklist. I've actually been attracted to him for over a year. We see each other around a lot at social events and have lots of mutual friends, specifically my close friend dates his close friend. Either way, we were moving very slow (annoying for me, but he just got out of something that hurt him). We've hung out in group settings a few times where he'd pick up the tab for whatever I ordered, and two one-on-one dates, one of which was a very nice dinner. Recently, I was having champagne brunch with my best friend and her man (his friend) and he obviously came up in the conversation. His friend essentially told me that the guy I've been seeing has been lying to me about some things and poked fun at me calling me gullible (his friend, not him). Naturally, I was upset. After several mimosas later, the three of us went to a party where the guy I like showed up to. He gave me a kiss in front of a lot of people we knew (this shocked me) and bought me a drink (without me asking, he comes up to me with my favorite drink) and apologized. When we left the party (without my crush) I was now with two of his friends who pretty much told me I was making myself look desperate because I talk about him too much. I was pretty drunk so I started crying. His friend texted him and told him I was crying so he called me. The conversation ended with him saying he hates arguing and then he hung up. I texted him and told him I just wanted to be "distant friends" the next day we spoke and I told him I didn't mean it and he said, "we will just remain friends"... I unfollowed him on all social media the night before but that day he went and unliked ALL of my Instagram photos. It's been three days and we haven't spoken. Is there any coming back from that? Asking because I really saw quality in this guy, which is so rare.
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I'm not surprised you got upset, being told he'd been lying to you. It's a strange thing for a friend to admit to. To be honest, I'd just wait to see if he contacts you. You felt you acted too needy so restrain yourself from contacting him, to show you're not. It was immature if his to unlike all your photo's. Just bide your time to see what happens, but I would never contact him first1