Most Helpful Guy
"Bad guys" as you put it, are often sensitive, caring, but extremely damaged individuals. They see something feminine, nurturing, and soft in you, your spirit, and they are drawn to that. As you may or may not be aware, they are no good for you... because if they were aware of their shortcomings they wouldn't be "Bad guys" any more, they would be trying to reform.
My advice is to ignore them... Push them away... As a woman you have all the power. But never quench or kill that beautiful, soft femininity you have in your heart, or you will be unattractive to all men.3THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
This happens to me too... ended up marrying a con artist narcissist commited fraud and a lot of crimes all the time living a second life and never noticed he seemed like perfect man with a touch of bad boy which " i loved" and this mystery to him that eventually at the end slapped me in the face and when i got pregnant and had a son i now started thinking of him and the life he was goin to live aside that his dad started abusing me i left and now i regret being attracted to the bad guys.. 😥0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE