I've been lied to so many times that I literally twitch at the littlest thing that doesn't add up. I know plenty of people have gone through being lied to; I don't know how to deal with this in a healthy way. I get angry, sometimes on the verge of violent behavior, hurting myself by punching things.
I don't believe men at all. When I talk to a new guy I'm sure he's lying. I question everything. Everytime I've been right. I'm getting to know a new guy and he seems to be a good one. But I question everything about him too. I've let him know about my insecurities and asked him not to lie to me but he never really promised he wouldn't. All he said was he didn't want to mess this up. I'm not happy with that because I always tell the truth even if it hurts. Lying only misleads people.
This is unhealthy. I've thought about seeing someone for help but I wonder if I can fix this myself.
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah you should go see someone about it. Your... fanatical obsession with the truth is actually a indication of a bigger problem.2
Most Helpful Girl
go see a therapist2