So I met this guy on Tinder last week and I agreed to go on a date with him (and obviously have sex). But I've realized that I'm not as attracted to him anymore and I want to cancel. I've already cancelled once by lying and saying I was sick. Now we've rescheduled for Tuesday but I really don't want to go.
How do I get out without hurting his feelings or coming off as a bitch?
Most Helpful Guy
Frankly, he's likely been through this before and likely cancelled on someone else before. I think you're overthinking it. Just tell him you're no longer interested and if he thinks you're a bitch, he thinks it.0
Most Helpful Girl
If he's super thirsty your going to come off like a B regardless so I'd just rip the band-aid off. Text him and say "Sorry to cancel again... things are hectic I just don't think this is going to work out." or say "Sorry I am just not feeling this as much as I thought I was." or say "Sorry I met someone and I need to see where this goes so I'm going to have to cancel". Whatever it was just sex so I wouldn't feel bad. Goodluck!2