Hi! I have a crush on a colleague. We both work part time in a supermarket to pay for college but we don't work in the same radius so we barely see each other. He is known to be shy and the thing is I am as well. I've been thinking about a way to approach him but I've never done that, guys always make the first move with me so I'm scared it's gonna be a disaster. Last week, I added him on facebook. We have absolutly no friends in common, the only way I found him is by playing CSI MIAMI and asking several people what his name was, so I feel like he must know I like him. Nothing happened as I expected it since I've done nothing. What do I do now? I don't want it to be an awkward facebook chat but I'm kind of trapped here. I don't want to scare him and make him move to another country but I don't want another girl to grab him either lol
How to date a shy guy?
What Guys Said 2
Start a chat and talk about things he likes so he feels more comfortable. Then you can move on to meeting up and other things.0
Take it slow and just go with the flow.0
What Girls Said 1
I doubt he will be scared. I am pretty sure that he will be really flattered if you attempt to talk to him.0
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