I am going on a date with a guy who is very experienced. I am the opposite. I have not had my first kiss yet. Obviously if we have a mutual attraction there is a chance that we will kiss. How do I do this? Should I tell him I haven't had my first kiss yet? If we kiss I want it to be short because I don't know how to kiss. Should I kiss him so that I have control over how long it lasts? If I am not attracted to him what do I do?
Most Helpful Guy
I'd let him know you haven't ever kissed someone before if you feel it is heading in that direction, that way he knows and it's a good hint to what you want.1
Most Helpful Girl
If you two decide you want to go out more, then tell him you want to discuss boundaries. This way you can make sure things don't get out of hand and go faster than you'd like.
During the date, just be friendly. Don't make it physical, and it's unlikely he'll make a move. The first date really shouldn't involve kissing anyway in my opinion, it should be more like flirty friends, because neither of you really know if you want it to last yet.
If you want to pull away after the kiss, pull away and end with a hug. That way it won't seem like you're rejecting him but then you still can control what's going on. If you're not attracted to him, then just don't kiss him. Don't waste your first kiss on a guy you don't even like.1