Most Helpful Guy
You know, I don't know. I actually think it's genetic because guys have been doing this since the beginning of time. Like before I ever had sex, I would say that I would never do things like that but then in my youth, I found it happened all the time. Like you know how people talk about guys listening to their "little brain"? I think it's totally true and the moment you have your orgasm, it's like your mind clears and think "I don't even like this girl. What am I doing here?"
Anyway, what you're going through is just the nature of dating at a young age. It's not easy to weed out the sincere guys because a lot of guys who aren't sincere think that they are up until the point that they have sex with you. You'll get through it though... just be more selective and more careful.0
Most Helpful Girl
Because they got what they wanted and they've moved on. Having sex with a person isn't a promise to stay in touch with them forevermore.4