I've been seeing a guy for a little over a month. We've been on a few dates and while I was trying to gradually assess whether or not I could envision something romantic forming between us (aka if I could look past a few dealbreakers), he's been certain about it from the get-go. I made sure to not get physical with him just yet.
I'm very attracted to him, and he's very attracted to me. He's kind, funny, artistic and has interests that basically match the guy that I never thought I'd find! Too good to be true. Well it is...
Here's the problem: His laugh (trust me, it's a problem)... And his behaviour is sometimes childlike, like he needs to be tamed or calmed down. He goes from this hot, mature man to... well. And sometimes he does questionable things to make me laugh -- and I'm too polite/kind to not laugh, afraid of embarrassing him.
What do I do? I don't want to change him, or anyone for that matter. And I don't want to lead him on either! It's almost been 2 months, and he's made it clear that he has feelings for me whereas I am STILL deciding if I like his personality.
Most Helpful Guy
Imagine yourself 5 years from now with him, do you see yourself happily enjoying his company at home, having lovely days out that you both enjoy, do you think you could happily take him to events like a family wedding. If you answer all yes then what's holding you back?1
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Most Helpful Girl
You know I think that if you really really like him but there's a fee things that are kind of weird to you, you should give him a chance. No one is perfect and there's going to be things you don't like about everyone. Are the weird things about him things that you could bring to his attention? Maybe he will change those behaviors for you. I'd say if he makes you happy then go for it!1