Most Helpful Girl
It's all about your social skills in the real world - looking good helps too, of course... But those social skills, being a relaxed and smooth conversationalist are essential skills to have to be a successful 'serial dater' if you will...
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Most Helpful Guy
Okay, I am so glad you asked this question. I've done relationship coaching for 10 years (500 clients, interviews, publication, etc.) and I can tell you emphatically that those are shams.
I've read some that say: "How to bed her in 10 minutes", "How to make any women worship at your feet", "So, you're not a 1 and she's a 10? No problem!", etc.
The very basics of what they get at are the importance of confidence (valid), presentation (invalid), and gamesmanship (bullshit, sexist, etc.). I've talked literally to dozens of guys who've taken those courses and most of them wanted their money back.
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