Should I stop trying to arrange a date with this girl?

She does not give instant replies to me, which is really disrespectful I think. When she does, she says that she had a really busy week. However, this week she herself said that we should meet on Tuesday but cancelled at last moment saying that she is working till late.


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  • Yes, absolutely. If she was keen she would have made an alternative arrangement with you when she cancelled.
    I'd drop back to match her contact frequency, or altogether.

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    • I agree. Dropping back to her contact frequency would make it a game or something. I think letting her go altogether is the right thing to do.

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    • All I can do then is wish you well. I hope it turns out to be what you're looking for :)

    • Thanks bro! :)

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What Girls Said 2

  • not everyone can reply instantly. If you want to stop trying then stop. If you think she's making excuses then give up or confront her about it

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    • Confronting is rather childish behaviour. I don't know if she's making excuses but replying after 3-4 days, "I've been busy sorry, can we make it this week" is kinda annoying. Maybe she isn't too keen so I'll just let her be I suppose

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    • Oh I don't know I'm sorry

    • It's okay...

  • end things

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What Guys Said 1

  • You're not a top priority. Clearly she doesn't see you as special. Let her go bro.

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    • Yeah seems so, but she has not met me personally yet, so I should at least give her one chance to know me better :D

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