Most Helpful Guy
My advice is that maybe your attraction will grow the more you two are together and dating? My friends wife said that she did not feel attraction for him for a first few dates but as she got to know him and learned what a great guy he was she got more attracted to him and that grow into her love for him.
I know that feeling it is like your just hanging out with your friend at a restaurant and it is not much different from just grabbing lunch with him. I did a few dates like that and I probably wiill do again. My best friend told me that she has had a crush on me for years after my ex girlfriend broke up with me. I'm going to try a few dates to see how it goes.
It makes sense you want to feel more than your feeling for him. Try cuddling with him see how that makes you feel. Not like spooning cuddling but just hold each other maybe during a movie. You sound like you know how great he is for you and you want it all. So just keep going for it and I think that the attraction will be there. I don't think that you will get any more sexually attracted for a while but you will get more emotionally attracted to him.
So what is your two's story? How did you two end up dating?1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
It's only been 1 date. Slow down, relax and actually get to know him. Don't hook up with him but also pay for yourself so you don't appear to be using him or leading him to think you owe him sex. It's easy just say you'd like separate checks when you order OR you pay for everything the next time you go out.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE