How to stop them?
I need actual ways, I can't just stop them and find someone else...
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Find something to do that requires some work to attain (not immediate gratification) that you enjoy doing and are excited about.
It should become a dream of sorts and something to actively pursue.
You're starting to improve if you can wake up excited to do whatever this is. With enough excitement, you'll find yourself thinking about doing this thing instead of her.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE