I met this girl 3 years ago at college. We hit it off straight away. We flirted and spoke everyday on the phone. We are so close that her parents thought we were going out. I decided to ask her out but she did not want a relationship at that time. I'm just confused by the way she has to see me at least once a week and sometimes more. she says I'm the closest thing to a boyfriend she has ever had and no one has ever made her laugh as much as me. She even lets me sleep in her bed and done things a friend would not do. I have tried to keep my distance but she just messages asking me when I can go to see her. I'm just confused and don't really know what to do.