I am dating a guy and of course I like him and I always offer to pay but he never let me so i am thinking about just stop offering to pay and just enjoy.
Most Helpful Guy
From a relationship coaching lens, there are a couple of factors here:
1) Do you at least offer? Which you already said yes to.
2) Is there an income disparity AND does he take you to places that would be reasonably outside of your price range? Which you already said yes to.
3) Do you like him beyond the money? Which you already said yes to.
4) Do you thank him when he pays? You didn't state this but I assume/trust that you do?
Soooooo, sit back and enjoy. Just don't take it for granted (which I know you don't). You're good! :)0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
No. There is nothing wrong with that if that is how he wants to date and treat you. If he doesn't want you paying then stop asking. It will make it seem like your insecure. I understand the feeling even though I've never dated, but when go out to places with people of they want to get you something, I always freeze up and panic and tell them not to. However, he is not doing this to intentionally trap you or hurt you. He's doing this from his heart. To be honest, this is usually the only way to know if a person truly likes you. It's not like your demanding him. He's doing this on his own accord. And besides, even if you didn't have money issues, you at least offered.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE