I'm in love with this girl, but I tried asking her out, and I think she is seeing someone else...
And she has been super awkward around me when I tried telling her I liked her...
I tried talking to her about the awkwardness but she said there is none (lie)
I just saw her today and am having a breakdown...
I wish I could have an open talk with her, but she doesn't want to and I'm really confused about my feelings and have a breakdown when I see her.
Most Helpful Girl
Take some time away from her do something you enjoy to keep her out of your mind. Go out with your buddies have a good laugh about things. You need to sort yourself out before you can sort things out. By sort I mean calm down. You are okay. It's not the end of the world. You are okay.
She can use the time to sort her ownself out as well. If you come on too strong after she turned you down she wouldn't feel good either.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Guy
Dude. You gotta calm down.
I can tell by the way you wrote this that you came on too heavy.
If a girl came at me like that, I would flee as fast as possible.
Have a drink and burn one. Have a little "me time". Whatever works.
When you are calm again, try some small talk. Go from there.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE