my boyfriend and I has been dating for 8 months now.
we say we love each other.
we would have sex and when he leaves all I could think about is having sex again.
I think my boyfriend might be cheating on me. and when I confront him about it, he said he doesn't and I "believe" him. I make myself believe him.
even with this doubt and issues all I could think of is that I love him and I want to have sex with him.
he is a great boyfriend very loving and caring.
and I tell him I love him and he tells me he loves me.
even knowing/doubting his loyalty I just want to keep having sex with him. I want to keep him no matter what.
now thinking about it.. it made me question if I really do love him or if it's just lust.
yes he's freaking great in bed
I'm not stupid I can tell.
wait I guess I am stupid coz I still want to keep him no matter...
Most Helpful Guy
From a relationship coaching lens, this is LUST or perhaps being 'in love' which is different than loving someone and having them love you in return. Being 'in love' is a feeling of smitten-ness. Loving someone and being loved in return is feelings and actions and experiences that are deep and sustained. So, you might be 'in love' with him and the great sex is likely the main reason.1
Most Helpful Girl
It sounds like lust to me.0