I am so TIRED of being a virgin, i am 24 years old and i don't even know why but i just never gave it away as a girl... i feel like i am missing out on love and sex and one night stands and everything... or am i doing the right thing? am i a good example? or i am just naive? i feel like i am not enjoying my beauty..
Most Helpful Guy
While yeah, you're definitely missing out on some fun times, it isn't all fun and games. STDs are a concern. Especially because for your gender, pregnancy is a concern. Guys can be real assholes sometimes and emotions can hurt. You're fortunate to not have had to go though that because it sucks.
I wouldn't look at it in terms of right and wrong, but you're definitely inexperienced if you're still a virgin. You don't have to go out and have one night stands (though, they can definitely be fun when everyone's on the same page), but maybe find a friend with benefits that you won't be super attached to when you or him move on.
I saw your other question about whether or not you're attractive. Girl, you're a solid 7 if not an 8. I'd probably be willing to take one for the team if I knew you in real life. Good luck.0
Most Helpful Girl
I waited until I was 22, and I wish I had waited longer. There's nothing wrong with sex, and it's not the virgin thing that worried me. It's the guy that ended up being my first. Him being my first was one of the things that kept me in an unhealthy relationship longer than it should have.
I guess what I'm saying is. Being a virgin isn't that big a deal. One night stands are kind of meh. The majority of women can't orgasm through thrusting alone (about 75%), and most men on a one night stand stick to thrusting because it's the part that pleasures them. I unfortunately had a few one night stands because I thought there was something wrong with me for not enjoying sex, and I wanted to try and fix it. Turns out I wasn't enjoying the sex because the men weren't putting any effort into it. Best sex is always when I'm in a relationship because the guy is invested in making me happy. Plus, I find the emotional connection enhances things.
But that's just me. You've just gotta do what makes you happy. If you want to wait, then wait (you're probably not missing out on much). If you're unhappy being a virgin and you find someone you want to have sex with, then have sex with them. Being a virgin or not isn't a big deal, it's just a personal choice. And only you can make the right choice for you.1