So I have been dating this guy for the past few months and we've really been in bliss. We talked everyday & Recently we didn't talk for a few days and when he did text me, he was asking if we weren't talking anymore. I didn't text him because I wanted to see where his head was at, (if he really wanted me) so I wrote him back and he mentioned that he still wants to be friends so I was confused because I thought we were building something. So he says that he is also scared to fall in love again because of his last relationship and he isn't where he wants to be in life. Should I just not be his friend or have faith that one day we will be? I am currently ignoring him.
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Ignoring him is the wrong choice but I assume it is what you are doing because you don' really know what to do.
Tell him that you want to talk. Express your feelings and your concern for his feelings. Explain that you really can't go backwards in a relationship but you can slow down so he won't feel that things are rushing forward, out of control. But (if you feel this way) tell him that being just friends is not enough.1