One night I got stood up by someone I was into and got a random text from this guy who lives 1 hr away, I made a plan to go out with him. Well the date actually went really well, but honestly distance was a no for me. But he ended up asking me out again which was yesterday and he came to me this time. Again super nice guy , attractive, and seems like a really good guy. But on the first date I was insecure about being at home to pay off bills and I told him i lived a lone. I didn't think anything would happen. But he seems really into me, and me him, he would be someone I could be in a relationship with. So now this lie is making a snowball effect. Now we set up date 3 and I don't like this lie, but I'm super insecure. What is the best way to handle telling him the truth? Is this a big issue for men? Will a lie like this ruin everything? Especially it being it's so early in dating. I just don't like hiding it. Should I wait to see if things even progress before I make myself look horrible? I've learned my lesson. I need to be honest with everyone. You never know what will happen. Let me know what you guys think. Thanks!
Most Helpful Guy
Since the 3rd date is the "sex date", just wait until after to tell him. Of all the women I have had sex with since I started dating, all but 2 were on the 3rd date. 1 was the 4th, and 1 was in place of a first date (long story)...0
Most Helpful Girl
I think you should have told him the truth already. Do it as soon as possible.0