I take care of myself I support myself and my 10 year old daughter have a good job!
So what's the issue? Recently I asked an ex who broke off our relationship to go back to his ex.
Turns out I'm the perfect woman just one problem he wanted someone without kids. He wanted a family just not with someone who already has a child.
He also said this is a big thing for men.
Is it? Am I doomed to stay single? Are there no good guys out there?
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There are tons of "good" men out there and yeah they are averse to the fact that you have a child. Lets not even factor in the fact that you have a child to Another Man, lets just look at the future aspect... that will ALWAYS be YOUR child. Not his.
Im facing the same shit now... i have what is most likely the perfect woman.. but she has a child (son).. and i feel like i will always be #2 in her life. cant/dont wanna deal with it.
You aren't doomed to stay single... but you will always be wary and men can detect that... after all... that is YOUR child.. not BOTH of y'alls child.
see what i mean?0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE