I'm a 20 year old black woman currently in my first year of university ! and I have only had one boyfriend back in high school and our " relationship" lasted only 4 months ( this was back in 2014) and he was a black male. but before then I have always found myself attracted to "white males" and coincidently I have had a few white males interested in dating me as well but I just haven’t been able to take our interest further to the relationship level as I fear backlash and just being seen as strange and a self-hater. Therefore I would appreciate some advice on how I can deal with these inner conflicts as I would love to date and meet someone that I feel comfortable and happy with !
Thank you !
Most Helpful Guy
I'm a 20-year-old white guy who's mostly attracted to Asian girls. My friends and family love to give me a hard time, saying I have "Yellow Fever." It used to bother me, but honestly, I don't give a shit anymore.
I don't see myself as self-hating, simply because I find Asian girls more attractive than white girls, on average. I don't think we get much of a choice when it comes to whom we're attracted to.
I guess the biggest question is, "Whom do you fear will give you this 'backlash?'"0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Date whomever you like as long as your not bashing any other race of men. Also make sure when you are dating interracially that you're not being fetishized. Just make sure that whoever you're with love you for you and not your skin.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE