Serious question, can you ask out a girl if you have never made her laugh or flirted with her?

If you have known a girl for a few months and talk to her regularly but only in a formal, nonflirtaous manner, do you think its pointless to ask her out since she'd be so surprised not knowing you ever liked her (since you never gave any hints) and automatically reject you since she's overloaded with emotions?
Do you think you have to start flirting and making her laugh gradually and keep going and then ask her out?


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What Girls Said 1

  • I think the second is a little safer.

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What Guys Said 2

  • You can, but the odds are against you. She wouldn't expect it and become defensive.

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  • No, not necessarily, a girl I liked knew I liked her just because I spoke to her. Flirting and making her laugh will just create attraction and build sexual tension

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