I'm not looking to fall in love nor enter another relationship after a disastrous one. I met him, he isn't the type of guy I usually date nor get attracted to, I wasn't even attracted to him at first as he isn't really as hot as the guys I liked before but he's sweet and a gentleman. Were dating and though I enjoy going out I don't have the butterflies in my stomach but as days pass and I get to know him better I feel some changes with my feelings, I'm starting to miss him. I'm looking forward to see him. Today we went out and I'm looking at him and I felt like he is starting to look good, attractive in my eyes, he hadn't change but in my eyes, he's the most handsome guy I ever laid my eyes. I've never felt like this, like I said the guys who catch my attention are handsome good looking guys. Am I falling for him? I wanted to kiss him so badly earlier. i wanted to get as close as I can with him. Ugh. This is not good. he's leaving in a couple of months.
Last night i ended it with him, told him how I feel and I can't date him casually because thats not what im looking for in a relationship. He took easy and he asked to still be friends and maybe hang out in the future which i politely and firmly declined. That alone tells me how he see and feel about me. Just casual. Im glad i talk to him straight up and ended this casual dating thing. Im investing my time and emotion on a guy who does not feel the same.
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I don't know if your falling for him but I went though the exact same thing and I still am. The only difference between you and I is that he's leaving but why not enjoy it while it can last even if it's just for a little while?0