How come this girl didn't respond to my text message and stopped contacting me and avoided me for 3 weeks after 4 months of constant communication?

I met a new hire at the company and I noticed she was acting nice to me. She would contact me the most out anybody in the office for assistance. 2-3 times a week, she would contact me through chat, phone and email. She offered to buy me candy and coffee but got upset when I declined. She would smile and tell me to have a good weekend. She met me at a store and she jumped and screamed my name. She even called me and asked if she was bothering me because she contacted me so much. She would act this way towards me for 4 months.

On Thursday, at 430pm in the evening she contacted me asked me to help her setup a computer so she could work at home.

I went to go meet her and I noticed everybody in the office left except for her.

I sat right next to her and I helped her setup the computer. She mentioned she was a student and I mentioned that we went to the same school. I told her that the school was far from my house and she asked me where I lived. I also told her that in order to receive work email at home she would have to have an access token. I asked her if she had anybody’s contact so they could provide her a token number.

She mentioned she didn’t and I offered my help by providing my token number. She eventually ask for either my work or personal number but I declined and told her she can contact me. I left and I noticed her blush and smile.

The next day Friday, she sent me a chat in at 1pm when she was home and saying Hello and I told her that I wanted to contact her earlier. She mentioned she was busy. She then sent me a chat with the follow: Hi, Name I would like to speak to you. Please call me at her personal cell phone number with a smiley face.

Since I was busy assisting somebody, I provided the token through chat and she typed that it’s fine to chat her instead.
The following Monday, she chatted me and mentioned she had the laptop and mentioned she can either come to me or I can pick up the laptop. I went to her and picked up the laptop.

The next day Tuesday, she chatted me and mentioned her boss needed assistance and she would like me to come up or she asked me if I can ask the other tech to come up. I helped her boss and she smiled and said thanks for the token. For some reason, I asked her to provide the mobile phone setup sheet to her boss and she got a bit upset and asked me to do it. She proceeded to say See ya later in a bit of a upset tone.
Later that evening at 8pm, I sent her a text to her number with Hi, It’s Name, how’s everything going? She responded back 3 hr 30 mins at 11:30pm in the evening with Hi, Name, everything is fine. Is there something you need? At 12am, I responded with just saying Hello. She didn’t respond to my text.
The next day Wednesday, she avoided me for 3 weeks and didn’t send me an email, chat or call me at work.
3 weeks later, I went up to her floor and to assist somebody and she stepped out and looked a


Have an opinion?

What Girls Said 1

  • You were constantly communicating with her for 3-4 months without even attempting to ask her out. Why would she keep in contact with you?

    • Either way, how come she avoided me for 3 weeks and not respond to my text.
      She eventually met a month later in the elevator after not speaking to each other for 2 months and she screamed out its been a while I've been stalking you

What Guys Said 1

  • your last update is missing

    • 3 weeks later, I went up to her floor and to assist somebody and she stepped out and looked at me from across the floor.

    • Show All
    • After what is said and done, what is your overall opinion about the way she's acting towards me.

    • well as i said play and go with the flow, if you like (love) her show it but dont fall until you are sure that she likes you back only time can reveal the outcome

Loading... ;