I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months and he does tell me he loves me everytime we see each other (even outside the bedroom) and very caring and affectionate towards me. He has talked about us in the future and even mentioned about maybe living together later when we are both more stable. Anyway, he then told me "please don't stop me to go to the gym. do not ask me to pick you or the gym because i would pick the gym. i have to choose myself before anyone else"
people say that when one loves another person, he/she would choose that person over anyone or anything else. is this right? does this mean he doesn't love me since he put gym as his higher priority?
- Yes he doesn't love you if he picks gym over you17%(2)26%(5)Vote43%(3)
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Hey! Girl! Chill don't think much about this!!
It will never affect your relationship! You should try to understand your boyfriend. That's really not a big deal! Accept it! And it's been 7months! Your bond obviously needs to be strengthen with time!
Even my boyfriend was like this! For him his drawing pencil and art is everything!! And I'll be more happy if he chooses his art over me!! Because it makes him HAPPY! And his relationship with are is longer than his relationship with me!
So ya understand your boyfriend! (And trust me he will always choose you in the end! It's just that for home the decision will be hard! )0