I've been speaking to this guy that I met through mutual friends and we have been speaking everyday. I was asking him why he uses humour to avoid certain things and from there went really deep. I told him he was good looking but didn't believe me and thought I was joking, but I wasn't. Now his really keen on me; messages me sweet things, good morning/night texts, his already given me a pet name!
So guess my question is it legitimate to like someone a lot just because they like how you look? They like something you hate about yourself? (This guy was bullied for his looks and is still alittle insecure about it)
Most Helpful Guy
No, it is a terrible reason to really like someone. It feels good to know what they think, but that's all it is, a good feeling. My sense is that he is in a hurry because of the things he does after finding out you think he is good looking. He does sound insecure and once he knew what you thought, that was his opening to jump in. I'd be careful with him. If you start and then break up with him, he will be hurt big time.1
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Most Helpful Girl
It is. People love it when other people admire them, especially when someone they weren't expecting that kind of attention from. It makes them view the other person in a more attractive light as well.1