Most Helpful Girl
Practice. That's number one.
Be prepared to accept rejection graciously. That's number two.
Most Helpful Guy
I get super nervous to the point I hyperventilate. I find I have to start a small conversation with them first and become use to them and comfortable with them first. This can take a few encounters to build up though. Not too long, because you don't want to get friendzoned. Take a deep breath and keep it simple. Don't make a big thing out of it. Just ask her if she would like to grab a cup of coffee sometime. Women love men who are honest with them, and also think it is simply adorable when a guy is nervous asking them out. It makes them feel special and significant.0