I have noticed that this guy I work with has liked me for about 2-3 weeks now. We only see each other 1-2x a week at work. He asked me to get coffee with him last week and I turned him down because I had made plans with a mutual friend. But that's when I knew that although I liked spending time with him, I don't want to have sex him. Which says something because I'm VERY sexual-minded (?) when it comes to guys I like. He's big; probably very overweight but not fat roll obese. But no matter how I look at it, I know that if I date him I will try to get him to loose weight because I'm very exercise and health minded. And he seems very happy and confident with who he is so it would be unfair to him. What's the best way to tell him so we can still work together when we are at work?
Most Helpful Guy
Don't. Just use the "just friends" thing, normally people don't argue with it.1
Most Helpful Girl
So like do you mean his dick size or his body size because if mean his dick how have you even seen that and if you mean his body if he fat and you do not like that try and say it in that your nice possible but if he not your type because he is not fat then what would be very easy to tell someone but if you mean his penis it is probably best you don't tell him that.0