Is falling in love random? Is it something you can choose? Is it Mother Natures design to control it? Tell us what you think below!
- That kind of love is by chance orchestrated by mother nature13%(7)10%(10)Vote7%(3)
- I have never been "IN LOVE"7%(4)9%(9)Vote11%(5)
Most Helpful Girl
To an extent yes. I mean you don't chose who you get attracted to but you chose whether the attraction leads to love or not.3
Most Helpful Guy
The answers are ambiguous since you literally asked 4 different questions and answering Yes to one of them may contradict your answer to another one. But I voted "No" to the TITLE question, as in I don't think it's possible to choose who you fall in love with.
It's not entirely black and white though, you can sort of steer yourself in the right direction. You can't just say "I want to fall in love with person x", but you can avoid falling in love with people you don't want to fall in love with by minimizing contact with them.1