Now he told me that since his flight back home will go through the city I am living in, he wanted to ditch his connecting flight and stay with me for some days... and then get a new flight a few days later. I would really like to see him, since I had a great time with him... and I want to get to know him better, spent some time together and not just write, text etc. But could letting him stay at my place send a wrong signal?
About 1,5 years ago I got out of a long term relationship, where I found out that he cheated on me for most of the time. I went out with some guys ever since, but till now I got to the point where I really want to start dating seriously again. My question is: how do I make it clear to him that I am not just looking to hook up, without sounding creepy or coming off as needy/too direct etc? I know that I still have to see if we are really getting along etc... but in general when would you say is the time to "tell someone what you are looking for"?