So I went on a few dates with guy1 and then he kind of disappeared. I moved on and started dating someone else. Now guy1 is back all of a sudden... I don't know how to do this, I've never dated more than one person at a time. I really like both guys... what would you do in this situation?
Most Helpful Guy
A couple of questions from a relationship coaches perspective:
1) How do you feel about dating more than one guy at a time? I know you've never done it before but how does the idea of it sit with you?
2) Would you be okay with knowing that guy1 or guy2 was dating someone else?
I ask these because it's actually fairly common for people to date around and as long as they're comfortable with it (themselves) and none of the people that they're dating are looking for exclusivity, I see no issue.
I know what I would do in this situation (to get to your actual question) but it really matters what you're comfortable with and what their expectations are.
Last thing--So guy1 disappears and decides to reappear? What's that about? And you're just letting him back in, no questions?0
- Show AllShow Less
Most Helpful Girl
I'd date the one I like more, but that's just me. People nowadays date multiple people. Why did he disappear by the way?0