My boyfriend works and goes to the gym every day. Some days he's off work... but he can't go to the gym whenever. He always goes around 7pm-9pm and is in bed by 10 because he has work early the next morning. I have school and work. And he works 6am-7pm and some nights I work 3pm-11pm. Our schedules are completely different. The only time we can really hangout are on the weekends and that's only IF I'm off work. & he works the whole weekend every other weekend. It's impossible to see each other. If we both have a day off, we still can't really hangout because he has to go to the gym at 7 🙄 so it kind of ruins our day. What do I do about this?
Most Helpful Guy
I feel like the one who needs to do something in this situation is him. I know the gym and his health are important but he needs to readjust his priorities and realize that he should be putting you first every once in a while.
perhaps you two should talk about a compromise where he could go to the gym slightly less often and maybe you could tag along every once in a while to help motivate him and work out if you'd like to.
I'd definitely sit him down and talk about what each of you are prepared to do in order to increase your time together :)
Most Helpful Girl
I don't understand. He can simply go to gym for 1 hour and hang out with you the rest of the time, or you could just go at his place after work and at least sleep together or something.0