I would actually enjoy this kinda thing, but I don't know how to get involved in it. This one time I had a friend who was a girl but I don't know how to do the friends with benefits thing, so I feel like I ended up making her think I wanted something serious. How can I do it?
Most Helpful Girl
I feel it works best if one or both were recently in a long term relationship that ended and were used to getting it pretty regularly. A friends with benefits would allow you to ween yourself off of it more easily or give you something to hold you over until your ready to get back out there.0
Most Helpful Guy
I was recently in a very similar predicament. a couple months back, I went on a date with a girl, with the intention of just hooking up. but she was so sweet, it felt wrong, so all I did was kiss her and we parted ways. I asked her on a second date, this time was going to actually pursue sex, and she stood me up because she wasn't interested in me mentally and emotionally. I was like, OK whatever. a month goes by without contact and one day she apologizes for standing me up. I was drunk when I got her text, so of course I told her that when I asked her out, I was only interested in sex with her, not dating. she was surprised and it really threw her off. she said that I should have told her that in the first place because she would have been okay with it. then she told me that I needed to buy her a drink sometime.
so if you take anything from this, find a girl you like and who likes you, and tell her all's you want is casual sex.0
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