i make small talk with them in clubs or class but nothing I haven't gotten anywhere in class the same thing i think things are going well they are laughing and even flirting but then when I ask for their number or that we should hang out or check out this event on campus they say they don't know me that well or just they don't know me, I'm a little frustrated because I transferred here from a smaller college where most of the kids were from high school and I was kind of a nerd in hs so I know nobody where others have had a head start of 2 years to form groups.
A lot of people in my class already seem to be established or in fraternities and involved and I'm kind of on the outside, in some of my classes people start talking right away and sometimes I try to join in but I just don't know what they are talking about or I get pretty much butted out of the conversation, I really don't want to graduate with no friends or never having a girlfriend, I'm actually kind of scared because if i can't get a girlfriend here where I'm surrounded by females my age everywhere, how the hell am I possibly going to get one when I finish college and my days consists of work etc and not meeting as many people my age, to add I do not drink and I do not like clubbing, it's just not my thing and I'm not really looking for a one night stand, how's a guy suppose to get a girlfriend when I keep getting answers saying I don't know you, how the hell am I suppose to be known to them, plus a lot of them already have social circles. Help?
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Dude I know being in college surounded by women your age is hard when none seem interested. Honestly this year I did not see any women my age outside of college. Like they were all shopping online.
What those ladies are doing is basically trying to let you down without saying now. It really sucks huh. Simple your not thier type or they don't like you romantically and want you as a freind. a good guy freind is valuable to a woman thier age.
Finding a girl to date and works is a numbers game keep trying man don't give up and don't dis pare. Women can tell when a guy is desperate.0
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