Like maybe you both really like each other but the girl wants to wait for example 4 months after talking and spending time together before being kissed on the lips. Hate to put a time on it cause I don't think thats the best option but I just mean that if you really liked a girl would you wait until like the 8th date or whatever and not 1-3 for a first kiss. Something like that...
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It would be a massive red flag that she found it easy to wait that long.
On the flip side I -don't- need to wait that long to be exclusive. But i'd be nervous going exclusive with someone who is so willing to cut off physical/sexual stuff over some idea in her head.0