Most Helpful Guy
Clearly, you're going to have to put forth more effort than you are and take at least some initiative. Is it not OK to try a little harder, just as long as HE is still the one to try harder than you?
I've never understood why women sit around and torture themselves instead of just getting over themselves and their ideals. If you're old-fashioned, you'd better be old-fashioned in the same sense that you're also willing to do housework, otherwise you're not old-fashioned at all, you're just picking and choosing what is easiest and most convenient for you. . . whatever option results in you not having to do as much work. A lot of women seem to want equality except when it comes to dating and sex, but sorry, it doesn't work like that anymore. But I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and pretend that you will do his housework and cook for him, because well, not every woman is a hypocrite.
You might just have to prepare for the possibility that perhaps he isn't as old-fashioned as you are. Not a lot of younger men these days are because we're taught now that this lifestyle is a thing of the past and sexist towards women, that women are more than capable of "stepping up" themselves if they want something done.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Some guys are afraid of being too pushy and so they skirt a little before taking the final plunge.
He may not have finished sounding you out yet.
He may not have gotten the impression you want more or are ready yet.
Either drop a hint, keep talking or leave it.
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