So I've been seeing this guy (we'll call him Doug) and I really like him. We've been seeing each other for a couple months now, and I want to have the exclusive talk.
However, Doug's behaviour lately is making me wonder if something is up. He cancelled all of our dates last week (we had agreed to 2) due to hurting himself and a family obligation (or so he said, more on that later).
Doug's pretty clumsy and fell hard on an already injured foot, so he cancelled our date last Thursday a couple hours before I was supposed to come pick him up.
We were also supposed to meet up on Sunday, but then Doug cancelled (on the Friday the same time he cancelled the 1st date) due to a family dinner that day.
Then when I asked Doug on Monday when he is free, he didn't answer my question and instead told me he was feeling sick (like flu sick).
I just received a message from a guy online (both me and Doug are still online). I was planning on having the talk with Doug when we were meeting up on Friday, but he cancelled. I'm beginning to wonder if he is losing interest. :(
On Sunday when I asked Doug how his family dinner was, he said he had just gone out for a bit. But said the dinner was good.
The message I received was really nice and it's definitely someone I would talk to otherwise. But I'm not sure if I should message this guy back or wait to see how things go with Doug? I've been online for over a year now :(
Basically we've been on about 7 dates, so that's pretty much one date per week. Each time we went out he said he had good time and wanted to see me again. He made plans several times with me as well during this time. Just this past week was when he cancelled on me.
We still text several times a day. He calls me honey, sweetie, sends me kissy faces. The cancelling has me confused as to his interest in me.
Though he hasn't been clear on when we are going to see each other again, which has be concerned also. When I asked him when he was free on the weekend, he said he would know his schedule for this week, but then when I asked again on Monday about it, he had the flu.
Most Helpful Guy
First off... you lost me at "online"... you should already know thats a bad route... so unless you are faking your (25-29) and are actually like 16, there should be no reason for you to be online.
Secondly, in the online dating world, at least when i decided to see what the hype was, I found out the people have very little patience... if it doesn't seem interesting, they move around Quick, especially the girls.
Plus, like i always tell people, if you decide to meet someone online, understand that you aren't. the. only. one.0
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Most Helpful Girl
Accept the other date. And think nothing of it. Stop reaching out to Doug for dates. Let him reach out to you. If you are available when/if Doug wants to go out again, go. You need to find the path and mate who's best for you.
Just because you have a job interview at one company doesn't mean you stop going on job interviews with other companies.0