I'm a 19 year old girl, and for as long as I can remember, I've only been attracted to much older men, usually men from around 45-65 years old. I've had a very happy and stable life, and am close with both of my parents (so I know it's not a 'father figure' issue). For some reason, I've just never "liked" guys my own age.. I don't if it's a maturity thing... I feel like I dress and act older than my age.. so that could have something to do with it. Just wondering if anyone else experiences this?
Most Helpful Guy
From a relationship coaches perspective, it's a maturity thing and it is easier to to visualize life starting sooner since they're already established. when people are mature beyond their years they can see a life that they want and when they look around at people in their own age range, they see a bridge too far. When they see older people, they think: established, together, attractive.2
Most Helpful Girl
i am the same way i find older guys more caring and better lovers. you should not be concerned as many girls like older guys.3