Hello, so, as the title says I'm looking for advice, because I got no experience at all on these things.. I will try to explain my situation as good as I can.
So, I got matched with a girl on Tinder and we have been texting for a while now, almost a year. At some point I asked her if she would ever be a friend to a guy who is boring and who has a social phobia (yes, I'm struggling with social anxiety). She replied that she had experience with a shy guy and told me that in the end it turned all good. After a few more messages in exchange, she told me exactly following - "We need to talk about all this, I will text you tommorow about this, I got an event. (she meant it with some concert, I'm not sure)". The worst thing about this is that it's been around 5 months and she haven't even texted me once as she promised to do so. My question wasn't even an invite to a date, just a simple question to make things clear for me. I'm kinda lost at the moment, because I like her. She has mentioned that she doesn't like doing a lot of long texting, so I had to ask this. I have respected this fact and been not too needy (meant that with over-texting). Sometimes after a month of silence I finally text her and she answers. I have been thinking about texting her for a while. Maybe she got matched with some other guy and may not be interested in me anymore and just blown me off?
What should I do? Should I text her at some point or just let it go by the waves of sea?
Thank you for reading this, would appreciate any help. :P
M: Hey, how have you been in the meantime?
S: Very good, and you?
M: Could say that good.
S: Then everything is fine, I'm happy to hear it.
M: Not quite everything is like that.
After that she didn't respond anything, I feel a bit confused about if I should continue this conversation, maybe I should try to ask her about this almost half a year of ignorance, but I don't think it's a good idea..