Anyway, although we ended up with the same type of job in the same city a few years later, we lost touch. These things happen. Out of the blue she messaged me and asked how life was and if I wanted to go out to dinner some day this next week. I said sure, not thinking anything of it, after all who doesn't like catching up with an old friend?
Then, a facebook post that she was tagged in popped up of someone remembering her late husband. I had no idea, apparently he had passed about 6-9 months ago, went pretty early in life which is pretty darn sad.
I also reached out to another female in our study/friend group who also ended up in our city, and this gal had not reached out to that female, just to me.
Normally I wouldn't worry too much, but I have just started dating this girl, and although things aren't super serious right now, I think we're pretty monogamous at this point. Further, wouldn't this widow'ed lady be kinda vulnerable? I don't want to take advantage or anything. Am I being dumb to over think this?