Most Helpful Guy
If a woman isn't grossly overweight and has no major facial deformities, she'll be attractive to at least 80% of the men around her age. Men are looking at you, so obviously the problem lies elsewhere.
If you look too high maintenance or promiscuous, decent men will avoid you. Too flashy and you might seem unapproachable.
I have a theory that women who wear glasses are more approachable.
You seem to be placing an inordinate importance on physical appearance.
As, @btbc92 mentioned, you should focus on character instead.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Stop being desperate. Stop trying to be sexually appealing for guys to lust after you. You look attractive, but you don't sound attractive. I'm reading everything you wrote, and in my mind, I'm saying that you're trying too hard get guys to become sexually interested, and nothing more. You need to change the way you dress a. s. a. p and how you come off. Guys will stare but that doesn't mean they want to approach you. Especially if you give off that sense that your that desperate. They will not approach you like that or seek for you to approach. Stop focusing on appearance and more on your character and mentality.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE