I have to shut my feelings off for him and act as though they don't exist. He makes things awkward as I will walk in the office and I catch him staring at me or he will go in to the kitchen when I go. I don't think he is happy at home as he moans about his children and how much they cost and he sighs at how he has the children on his own at weekends as his wife works shifts. Today I got flustered as he came near me, I know I cannot involved but how can I deal with this knowing he fancies me too.
Most Helpful Guy
Hmm that's a tough one, he may just want someone to talk to, usually I find women easier to talk to about relationship problems or any problems for that matter. Try listening but nothing more, if he starts to make advancements, tell him exactly what these people said that there can be nothing between the two of you. Also that if he is having this feelings to talk to his wife, because what he is doing is not fair to her nor their kids.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Your a strong woman who can control yourself... that being said even if he had feelings for u- there are more people involved than just you two... think of how heart breaking it would be if you were in his wifes position... Married to a man with 3 children then somone comes in and swoons him away leaving your family torn apart... Just because your into somone who may be into you- it doesn't make it right. Not judging you girl i get that its hard I've been there myself but just somthing to think about0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE